When I finally let go and did what felt pleasurable is when it first happened. The intensity just kept increasing, and it kind of hit a plateau before I squirted. I tensed up which I would later find helps the process along quite a bit , then I found myself completely sated. There are of course general things that apply to everyone, like nerve endings and arousal -- but the 'how to' varies so much from person to person.

Yes, mere pleasure-seeking mortals can do it, but it just might not look like you think. Despite sex educators, sex journalists hi! One of those things on most pleasure-seekers' lists?

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